...yet here we are, trying to figure out if wake windows are a thing, living in fear of our babies falling asleep while feeding, obsessing over self settling skills and worrying why our babies only take 20 minute naps. Â
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The Tribe is where you stop guessing.
This is the kind of sleep support, that I wish every parent had access to. Real advice without sleep training, without making you feel guilty, and without junk science.Â
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Just real, evidence based help, when you actually need it.
The Tribe is for mothers who are done with the noise, and want calm, evidence-based, instinct-led support with feeding, sleep, and early motherhood.
Here’s what’s waiting for you inside The Tribe:
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✔️ Monthly live support calls
A 1-hour call each month with open conversation, real-time group coaching, and honest, supportive guidance.
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✔️ Direct access to Sandy (Monday-Friday) inside the community
Ask questions, share what’s going on, and get thoughtful, qualified support from an attachment-focused sleep coach who actually knows your situation.
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✔️ Self-paced sleep course (4 months - 5 years)
Nap length sized, easy-to-follow modules you can dip in and out of, designed to fit around real life.
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✔️ The Tribe Sleep Guides
From sleep pattern analysis to early rising, to introducing a second settler, everything is there to support you as things evolve.
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✔️ A circle of like-minded mothers
Because sometimes the most powerful thing is being in a space where nobody questions your choices, whether that’s feeding to sleep, responding at night, or breastfeeding a toddler. Inside The Tribe, you get both community and expert guidance.
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One payment. Ongoing access.
The TRIBE isn’t something you join and forget about.
It’s not a one-off call.
And it’s definitely not another corner of the internet telling you there’s only one “right” way to do things.
Hi, I'm SandyÂ
At Wildhood Sleep, I often describe my approach as gentle and holistic, and I know those words can feel a bit overused, so here’s what I actually mean.
I don’t believe in “training” babies to sleep. Sleep isn’t a skill they need to learn - it’s influenced by so many factors. That’s why I look at the whole child: feeding, birth story, nutrition, development, and how sleep works biologically.
When I say gentle, I mean relationship-first. Babies sleep better when they feel safe, supported, and secure, not when comfort is withheld. Lasting change comes from trust, not pressure.
 I also focus on the wellbeing of the whole family. Sleep doesn’t exist in isolation, and neither do you.
And I’ll always be honest, there’s no quick fix or guarantee your baby will suddenly sleep through. But with the right support and understanding, things do improve.
Because the truth is, waking in the early months is normal. Baby sleep is lighter, shorter, and wired that way for a reason. It’s not something to “fix” - it’s something to move through, with support.
Evidence-based… not just “I saw this on Instagram” advice
No vague tips. No random opinions. No “this worked for my friend’s baby so it must work for yours.”
Everything I share is grounded in actual research, so you know it’s not just noise. it’s support that actually makes a difference.
No sleep training (yes, really)
Not the “gentle” version where you still leave them for a few minutes.
If it involves limiting your response to your baby, it’s not happening here.
You get to respond, support, feed, cuddle, and do what feels right, while still improving sleep.
Because you deserve to feel human again
This isn’t about perfect sleep, it’s about helping you get enough rest to function, think clearly, and not feel completely done by 9am.Â
You’ll get real support, not just a plan and a “good luck.” Â
“Gentle” doesn’t mean waiting a few minutes before responding to your baby.
It means you get to make decisions that actually feel right for your family, and be fully supported in them.
Here’s what’s included in the Tribe:
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✔️ Monthly live support calls
A 1-hour call each month with open conversation, real-time group coaching, and honest, supportive guidance.
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✔️ Direct access to Sandy (Monday-Friday) inside the community
Ask questions, share what’s going on, and get thoughtful, qualified support from an attachment-focused sleep coach who actually knows your situation.
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✔️ Self-paced sleep course (4 months - 5 years)
Nap length sized, easy-to-follow modules you can dip in and out of, designed to fit around real life.
 Â
✔️ The Tribe Sleep Guides
From sleep pattern analysis to early rising, to introducing a second settler, everything is there to support you as things evolve.
Â
✔️ A circle of like-minded mothers
Because sometimes the most powerful thing is being in a space where nobody questions your choices, whether that’s feeding to sleep, responding at night, or breastfeeding a toddler. Inside The Tribe, you get both community and expert guidance.
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